Friday, May 3, 2013

More threats

Threatened about my blog again. To stop posting defamatory remarks.

Let ME be clear:

I am writing about MY experiences in MY life as is my right. There is nothing in my blog that is false or untrue and I will not stop writing about my process of growing and healing and hurting and the things I am going through just because of threats made to me.

If you - or your friends - do not wish to read my blog, then don't but there is not one fallacy in it. You argued many times that people shouldn't do things they don't want to have posted on the web. I heard that argument over and over again.

Well, sir, just because of your embarrassment of the things you did and do suddenly this argument doesn't apply to you.

You - and anyone else in my life  - are a part of my story. A story you've known since we first met that I would write.

I'm glad you've moved on  although I am still sickened by many things that you did to me and I am still greatly triggered by many things associated with you but I absolutely will not be bullied by you or controlled by you ever again.

I was simply asking for a couple of things that are of great importance to me... my childhood photos (the only ones I have) and my journal which I must have left behind. The fact that you have felt the need ever since July of last year to exert your control over me - show me who's "boss" - speaks loudly to your character.

But I forgive you.

Regards

P.S. I have absolutely no desire - nor have I ever - to "keep you involved" because of the damage you did not just to me, but to my son as well. I, too, have moved on and am surrounded by people who love and support me through a very difficult time; people who are able to step outside of their own egos and embrace me with compassion and understanding. Also, I would be very careful about your threats. Just a fair warning. (I've resisted the urge to correct your spelling error).

Email:
I've rec'd a number of phone calls from you.. in each you've asked for somethng, or me to
look for something you're missing; photos, journals, etc.

Let me be very clear:

I do not have, nor am I aware of any of these things in my posession.

I am entirely uninclined to look for them in light of your continuing posting of defamatory
writings about myself via your blog and other venues. To believe I would tolerate your
continued publication of obsessive and untrue rants about me and then also be willing to
assist you in finding something from a year ago is ludicrous.

I simply wish to have no further association with you. I wish you no ill or good will either, I
have moved on with my life and I hope you find the mental maturity to move on with yours.

I am further demanding that any writing, blogs, internet postings or the like wherein I am
mentioned in any way be immediately removed. You seem to think there are no
consequences for your actions. Unfortunately that's not the case. If you think it's a way to
keep me somehow involved, it's failed miserably. My recourse will be to simply assign the
problem to an attorney to handle should it continue.

Don't bother replying to this email, I won't get it.

Perhaps YOU should "do the right thing" as you mentioned in the latest
call.

1 comment:

  1. Oh. And I am doing the right things. It's unfortunate that narcissism and callousness can prevent people from seeing it but I continue to do the right things.

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