For The Record

Response to threatening email:

I have NEVER questioned ANYONE about your whereabouts or activities. I stopped caring the moment you told me you were cheating on me before we even split. (YOU told me this).

I have NEVER "stalked" you - I hang out at my place quite often and cannot predict if or when you'll be there. Frankly you're the last person in the world I want to see and I definitely have witnesses to this. I can't even stand the sound of your VOICE!

You've NEVER had any concern for my child - haven't even once inquired as to his well-being - so this is just an empty threat to try and push buttons that you know will get a reaction. My child is safe and loved and cared for, far more than he was when he was with you - you who threatened to "shove your fist down his  throat" and repeatedly abused him, both verbally and physically. You have no idea how to be a father figure and never did, not with him. You persistently insisted he be the way you thought he should be, rather than letting him be the autistic child he is. He is much better off without you in his life and much happier.

I've never published ANY lies - just my perspective after you went out and slandered me all over three towns, repeatedly took advantage of my disorders and deliberately antagonized said disorders.

I have requested several times to get ONE THING from you which was handed down in the family - ONE THING - and all requests have gone ignored. Not one nasty message has been left on your home phone; I even wrote a letter requesting it, only to receive no response. It's pretty simple.

I have not posted any defamatory remarks on facebook. Again, I have told my side of the story which - as you told me when you were out sharing my LEGALLY PRIVATE, PERSONAL information with God-knows who - is "none of your goddamn business" and for which I could sue you but instead have chosen to sit in pain and cry over that betrayal. Unbelievable that someone who would claim to love you, would be so heartless and cruel. You flat out abused me, and hid it. Made sure you came out looking like a rose, all the while, cheating. What a GREAT guy!

And as for YOU...I shall honor your wish and not refer to you by name - I shall refer to you as "Dee" and I shall refer to your bosom buddy as "Gawhey" since that's the pet name you've given to your latest conquest (who you use and have used for months). As for your son reading my blog, it's not my responsibility to monitor what he reads. It's yours, SuperMom. You live THROUGH your kids, you're not the super mom you try to claim to be. You're as fake as the rest of them and have no idea what it is to be a friend. You just pretend...like everyone else.

The problem with you people (yes, you people) is your first inclination is to call the cops, rather than face up to your fakeness and weaknesses. Trust me: I haven't said anything defamatory - if I had, the entire towns of Haddam, Chester and Deep River (as well as anyone else reading it) would know a whole hell of a lot more about you both than they do now - all true, and you KNOW it.

I won't be threatened and I won't be bullied....not anymore. You did that for WEEKS - deliberately antagonized me while (according to you) seeing someone else, knowing I was in PTSD crisis. I was in desperate need of help and you did everything you could to trigger and hurt me. Until I was out and away from you, I was unable to say or do anything - I had to put up with it (during which time I spent every second I could at Eagles Landing - MY spot - before you even had your boat in the water because I couldn't tolerate your abuse). So don't threaten me. Don't try to bully me anymore. It won't work.